Saturday, July 16, 2022

 

Examine Your Heart to See if You Are Truly in the Faith

 (Are You Truly Saved?)

 

How can you know if you're a true child of God with an eternal inheritance? God's Word says you must examine yourself to see if you are truly saved. "Examine yourselves, whether ye be in the faith: prove [test] your own selves" (2 Cor. 13:5).  Don't just assume that you're saved simply because of what other people say. Though they may be sincere and mean well, they may be sincerely wrong, since they are not God and thus, cannot truly know your heart. And even if they quote Scriptures regarding God's faithfulness in keeping His promises and the certainty of eternal security (which are true), still don't let that keep you from examining your heart. Though it is true, you can never lose your salvation, that only applies to those who are genuinely saved. And how else will you know if you're genuinely saved unless you look for proof? Furthermore, don't let anyone convince you that by examining your heart, you're somehow sinning or demonstrating a lack of faith. I can tell you right off - that does not come from God. The enemy would like nothing more than for you to be self-deceived about your spiritual condition and think you're saved when you're really not. Sadly, thousands of professing, nominal Christians have fallen into that trap of believing that they're eternally secure, when they're really on the brink of hell. Don't let the enemy convince you that you shouldn't examine your heart. God warns you in His Word to examine yourself. And this makes sense. Why would you gamble with your eternal future? This is the one area you don't want to risk being wrong in. Just what if you're mistaken and you're not really saved after all? It certainly doesn't hurt to look into the matter just to be on the safe side. But it will cost you your eternal soul, if you don't do anything and you were wrong. Why take a chance? Make sure that you're secure in Christ by closely inspecting your heart and life for evidence of salvation.

So, how do you check to see if you're truly saved? First of all, if you're a true child of God, you will be "born again" spiritually, which means that you will have a new heart with God's law written upon it, as well as the Holy Spirit living inside of you to help you love and obey God (Jer. 31:33; Ez. 36:26-27; John 3:3). Radically transformed from within, you will be a new person spiritually. "Therefore if any man be in Christ, he is a new creature: old things are passed away; behold, all things are become new" (2 Cor. 5:17). And if there is truly an internal change of heart, there will also be outward, visible signs of this change manifested through your speech, conduct, dress, choices, preferences, etc. In other words, the proof that you're truly saved is a radically changed life that produces spiritual fruit or holy living. "Ye shall know them by their fruits...every good tree bringeth forth good fruit; but a corrupt tree bringeth forth evil fruit" (Matt. 7:16, 17).

How do you know if you're producing spiritual fruit? Together with the internal witness of the Spirit, you must look for signs or evidence of spiritual fruit in your life (Rom. 8:16; 1 John 3:10, 24). One mark of true saving faith is love for God. Be honest and ask yourself - Do you truly love Jesus? If so, you will strive to please Him by obeying His commandments.  Amazingly, some within the Church today try to subtly deny this obvious truth by either skirting around the issue or avoiding it altogether, while others openly deny it through the use of sophisticated arguments and twisting God's Word (e.g., implying that obeying God's law is legalism and is opposed to grace). But even Jesus Himself said, "If ye love me, keep my commandments" (John 14:15). What could be plainer than that? In the clearest and simplest terms, Jesus linked love for Him to obedience to His Word. And as if to emphasize and clarify this point, Jesus repeated it several times. "He that hath my commandments, and keepeth them, he it is that loveth me" (John 14:21). "If a man love me, he will keep my words" (John 14:23). "He that loveth me not keepeth not my sayings" (John 14:24). "If ye keep my commandments, ye shall abide in my love" (John 15:10). If even Jesus Himself said this, who could argue with this or deny it? It seems so clear then that love for God is inextricably tied to obeying Him. 

But now what kind of obedience is God referring to? Is it one merely performed out of a sense of duty, the fear of punishment, or a promise of reward? Though these are valid reasons for complying with God's will, our motives for obeying God should not be limited to these. Certainly, God, who is our Creator and LORD, has every right to command us. Without a doubt, we should feel a sense of moral obligation to obey Him. Our conscience dictates this. Moreover, a healthy fear of God's chastening should act as a deterrent to disobedience, while encouraging obedience. Finally, the hope of reward should provide further incentive to obey God. However, if we were to simply stop there and obey God for no other reasons than these, we would be no better than a Pharisee, motivated by pride and self-righteousness, or a devil, motivated by a slavish fear of punishment. Is this the kind of obedience God wants from us? The answer is, of course, "no". Even from a human standpoint, we can understand this. For example, would a man want his wife or children to submit to him simply because they felt obligated to, feared his punishment, or looked forward to some reward? What would that imply about their relationship or their feelings toward him? Certainly, if he's like most people, he would prefer his family to obey him because they want to and not just because they have to. Similarly, God wants us to obey Him for the same reason. Again, God is not only concerned with our actions, but also with the motives behind our actions. In order for our obedience to be acceptable to Him, we must have the right motive.

Thus, one thing that distinguishes a true Christian from a non-Christian is his sincere desire to obey God from the heart. Out of love and gratitude for what God has done, he desires (though not perfectly) to please Him through his obedience. Put another way, the test of true love for God is his willingness to obey Him.  Have you examined your heart on this issue? Ask yourself - Do you find it a joy or a burden to obey God?  For example, do you attend worship, serve God, share the gospel, pray, and read the Scriptures because you really desire to or merely out of a sense of duty and moral obligation? God's Word says that if we really love Him, we will not see it as a burden to obey Him and do what pleases Him. "For this is the love of God, that we keep his commandments: and his commandments are not grievous [burdensome]" (1 John 5:3; emphasis added). In other words, if you claim to love Jesus, you should not only try to keep all of His commandments, but you should also do it willingly from the heart and not reluctantly. Do you do this?  And what about when you fail to obey Him, which we all do? Do you repent with remorse over your sin, asking God to forgive you and to help you improve by His grace?  Your answers to these questions will tell you a lot about your heart's spiritual condition and about your true feelings toward God.

In addition to obedience from the heart, another test of true love for God is whether you prefer Him above everything else or not. If you claim to love God, how much do you love Him? Do you prize Him above all and value Him as your priceless Treasure? Is He your "Pearl of great price"? If so, you will strive to put Him first and make Him your highest priority. And you will be willing to deny yourself, even if it means sacrificing or giving up what you cherish most in this life for His sake. "The kingdom of heaven is like unto a merchant man, seeking goodly pearls: who, when he had found one pearl of great price, went and sold all that he had, and bought it" (Matt. 13:45-46). Are you willing to sell all to have Jesus? Is there anything in your life (e.g., an idol, some sin, etc.) that interferes with your putting God first or hinders you from loving Him the way you should? If so, are you willing to let go of it?

Another way to know if you truly love God and put Him first is to ask yourself - Do you still love the world or cling to the things of this life (as a general habit and way of life)? If so, then you cannot really love Christ. Scripture says, "Know ye not that the friendship of the world is enmity with God? Whosever therefore will be a friend of the world is the enemy of God" (James. 4:4). "Love not the world, neither the things that are in the world. If any man love the world, the love of the Father is not in him" (1 John 2:15; emphasis added).  You cannot love both God and the world. First, God and the world are directly opposed to each other. God is perfect light and the world, which is under Satan's dominion, is total darkness. Therefore, the two are incompatible. Second, true Christianity is not syncretistic, where you can blend different faiths together or share more than one loyalty (i.e., God and the world). In other words, it's not like you can straddle the fence with one foot in Satan's kingdom (i.e., the world) and the other foot in God's kingdom, hoping to get the best of both worlds. God demands your complete and undivided loyalty. He will not share this with anything or anyone else. You are to worship God alone. Thus, if your heart is divided between God and the world, then you are not truly worshipping God. And if you are not worshipping God, you cannot rightfully call Him your Lord and Master. The world (or rather, Satan) is your master. "No man can serve two masters: for either he will hate the one, and love the other; or else he will hold to the one, and despise the other. Ye cannot serve God and mammon [riches]" (Matt. 6:24).

The Marks of True Conversion

In addition to these questions, there are other tests that can help you evaluate your spiritual condition and determine whether you are truly saved or not. The following is a list of some of the general characteristics of true believers.  Though not limited to this list, every true Christian should share these marks to one degree or another, depending on his spiritual maturity. Do you bear these marks?

1) A radical transformation of heart and mind that results from the new birth and dramatically changes one's worldview, goals, priorities, preferences, and perspectives regarding God, man, the world, etc. (e.g., switching from a man- and self-centered focus to a God- and others-centered focus)

2) Love for God and man that evidences itself in holy obedience to God, a desire to commune with God in close fellowship, and a selfless, sacrificial love toward man, including strangers and even enemies

3) Mercy or compassion toward others, even undeserving recipients; a willingness to forgive others, based on God's forgiveness of one's own sins

4) Joy that is deep-rooted and founded on God's eternal promises and biblical principles, rather than a superficial happiness based on temporal prosperity and changing circumstances

5) Peace that results from reconciliation with God through faith in Jesus; an attitude that promotes harmony/unity (based on truth and not on compromise), while avoiding unnecessary conflict or division

6) Longsuffering or patience with others and endurance through trials

7) Kindness or a considerate disposition that seeks to help and benefit others

8) Goodness or a generous spirit that gives cheerfully and willingly

9) Faith or a sincere, active belief in God's Word, person, and works that reveals itself through good works or spiritual fruit; trusting in Jesus Christ as the only means of salvation

10) Humility that increases with an awareness of one's sin, shortcomings, and unworthiness before God; a meek, gentle, and quiet spirit that is not easily angered and readily forgives; not thinking highly of oneself or seeking after praise or glory; esteeming others better than oneself and putting their interests first; the opposite of self-love (e.g., self-seeking, self-exaltation, self-confidence, self-will, etc.)

11) Self-control over carnal desires, appetites, passions, and excesses (e.g., anger, lust, gluttony, drunkenness, inordinate fear or anxieties, covetousness, etc.)

12) Truthfulness or adherence to the truth, marked by honesty, integrity, trustworthiness, etc.; a dedication to God's truth that seeks to spread it and put it into practice, while countering anything (falsehood, deception) that would oppose God's Word 

13) Gratitude for God's love and mercy that naturally overflows into praise and adoration of Him and seeks to demonstrate appreciation through heart-felt obedience

14) Conviction of sin that extends beyond just feelings of remorse and leads to genuine and on-going repentance

15) Holiness that is not perfectionism or mere external morality, but a sincere desire and effort to please God from the heart by obeying His commandments; a new, inward principle that motivates the believer to pursue righteousness and overcome/mortify the remaining corruptions within the heart, having been delivered from spiritual bondage

16) Separation from the world that protects a believer from the world (i.e., its corrupting influence) without removing him from the world; remaining in the world as a witness for Christ, while not being of the world, condoning its false ideologies/beliefs and joining in with its sinful practices

17) Reverence for God or honor given to God out of due respect and regard for His divine attributes (e.g., holiness, power, wisdom, etc.); a holy awe and reverential fear of God derived not only from a knowledge of Scripture, but also from practical or personal experience (e.g., witnessing God's power through answered prayers; divine discipline or chastening, etc.)

18) Hunger for God's Word that is evidenced by the daily study, memorization, and application of Scripture

19) Prayer according to God's will that is regular, continual, and from the heart, based on God's truth

20) Serving God wherever there is an opportunity - at church, in outreach ministries, in the home, on the job, at school, etc.

21) Witnessing for Christ by testifying of God's truth (e.g., sharing the gospel, declaring God's attributes and works, etc.) and setting an example through Godly behavior

22) Devotion to God's glory that increases with the knowledge of God and a corresponding humbling and forgetting of oneself; striving to make God's glory the focus and goal in every area of life, including thoughts, attitudes, speech, and conduct

23) Spiritual growth that manifests itself through an increasing conformity to Christ's image; growing in the knowledge of God and in personal holiness through the consistent application of God's Word 

24) Perseverance or enduring to the end (of one's life or until Jesus returns) without abandoning or apostatizing (falling away) from God; continuing steadfastly in the faith and remaining loyal to God, sustained by His power and grace

Did You Pass the Test?

Do you see spiritual fruit or signs of true conversion in your life? I'm not implying perfection, of course, since even after you are saved, you still struggle with remaining sin and corruption in your heart until you reach final glory (Rom. 7:15-25). "For the flesh lusteth against the Spirit, and the Spirit against the flesh; and these are contrary the one to the other: so that ye cannot do the things that ye would" (Gal. 5:17). But overall, is your life characterized by these marks? For example, do you see visible signs of spiritual growth or progress? Are you increasing in your knowledge of God, growing closer to Him, and becoming more like Him?  Is your love for God deepening over time, the more you know and experience Him? Do you have a childlike faith that causes you - 1) to trust in and obey God's Word, though all those around you question or oppose it; 2) to depend on Him for your every need, even the seemingly most insignificant needs; and 3) to run to Him first and seek refuge in Him when faced with problems? Is God the main focus of your life, as seen in the use of your time, energy, money, and other resources? Is your overall goal to live for God's glory, submitting to His will, or to live for yourself, following your own desires? Do spiritual things have a higher priority in your life than temporal things? Are you experiencing more victories than losses in your battle against sin? That is, are you gaining more control over certain sins and weaknesses that you struggle with (e.g., anger, lust, pride, unedifying speech, selfishness, covetousness, etc.) and seeing improvement? And are you growing in love, humility, and holiness, without which no one will see the LORD (Heb. 12:14)? If you're truly saved, the general direction of your life should be heading in an upward trend, indicating spiritual growth and increasing conformity to Christ's image, though, granted, there will also be some valleys (failures) in between. Your life should not look like a flat line, representing a stagnant or spiritually dead life with no spiritual progress at all. Or worse, it should not look like a line heading downward in increasing degeneracy/depravity toward final destruction.

If you passed the test, by God's grace, and see definite signs or confirmation that God is working in your life (i.e., in salvation and sanctification), rejoice! And remember to praise God, giving Him all the glory. At the same time, note the areas that you need to grow in, and ask God for His continued help.  In other words, don't rest satisfied with simply being saved, if indeed you are, but proceed further in your Christian walk, pursuing Godliness and sanctification with all your heart and might, giving honor and thanks to God all the while.

However, if you did not pass the test, you may want to seriously evaluate your heart and life to see if perhaps you may be temporarily backslidden and need to get right with God by repenting of your sin and returning to Him. Another possibility and even more important, is to consider whether you are saved at all. This may be a frightening thought, especially if you've gone to church for most of your life and just assumed you were saved. You may even be a Sunday school teacher or a leader in the church, and even the thought that you might not be saved is quite embarrassing and humbling. But what is a little shame compared to your immortal soul? It's far better to face the truth now about yourself, when you can do something about it (i.e., seek God in true salvation), than to discover the truth when it's too late (after you've died). Sadly, many who profess to be Christians are in this very predicament. They are deceived into thinking they're saved, when they're really not, either because they were fed a false gospel or someone simply assured them that they were saved.  Though I've mentioned it before, it's worth repeating. Don't be misled. Whether well-intentioned or not, no one, apart from God, can tell you for certain that you are saved. Though someone can and should show you verses that promise the true believer eternal security, no one can read your heart like God can and know if you're really saved. Only God has that power. And the way God has chosen to reveal to you whether you're saved or not is through His Holy Spirit and by examining your heart for spiritual fruit. Have you examined your heart?      

 

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